Cool Tao Of Badass Dating Tip

tao-of-badass-dating-tipsHave you ever tried going up to a hot babe without looking like a complete fool? Or are you just one of those guys that end up staring at the hot babes? It’s really hard to tell which is worse, looking like a complete fool or just staring and daydreaming about the hot babes. Either way, it just totally sums you up into a total loser.

It’s probably time for you to make that change. You can’t live all your life just staring and daydreaming. You just have to do something about it. One of the best resources for this kind of predicament is The Tao Of Badass ebook package. This is for every dude out there that want to make a change. No more staring, no more daydreaming, it’s time to make it happen.

Walk Down The Street And Make Friends

This is a good way for you to practice confidence. As you probably know by now, confidence is a vital component of The Tao Of Badass. According to dating site, you need to be confident first. So practice it. Walk down the streets and say hi to people. Be the friendly person. Say “hi: to strangers.

Of course, there is a huge possibility that you could look like a complete fool. But who cares. This is the best way to lose all your inhibitions. So when the moment comes when you really want to approach a hot babe, you won’t end up pissing in your pants or looking like a fool. Being friendly to everybody is the best way to let the hot babe know that you’re a likable guy.

Challenge Yourself And Move Out Of Your Comfort Zone

Joshua Pellicer author of The Tao Of Badass says that while practice makes perfect, emersion can also help you develop the confidence to approach hot babes. In this particular exercise, you can challenge yourself with situations that you’re not really comfortable with. Emersion is an exercise where you can test how well you can handle the embarrassment and anxiety that comes with uncomfortable situations. This is a good way for you to get out of that comfort zone and become the dude of badass.

Just Talk And Get To Know Someone

This is another dating exercise that can really get you going. If you still feel that you’re not ready to approach a hot babe on the streets, just approach anybody and just start talking. Talking and getting to know strangers will help you gain the confidence to approach and start a conversation with just about anybody on the streets. You don’t have to worry about sounding like a complete jerk because you’re talking to a stranger. You have nothing to lose with this exercise. As a matter of fact, you have everything to gain as you will be meeting more friends.

With practice and patience, you will finally have the power to become the confident dude, going up to people and making friends. The Tao of Badass can totally transform you into that kind of dude that exudes confidence and charisma. It’s a fact that everybody radiates towards a confident guy. And the good part is that “everybody” includes the hot babes.

You’ll be surprised one day when, all of a sudden, you’ve effortlessly approached a hot babe. When that moment comes, you can finally make it happen.




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How To Increase Your Chances of Finding A Date

how-to-find-dateThere are times when you just can’t find a date. No matter what you do, you just end up dateless for the night. It’s a lonely feeling but it happens to everybody.

If you can’t stand that feeling of loneliness then you should find ways and means to increase your chances of meeting a potential date.

Ask Your Friends

It really wouldn’t hurt to ask your friends. You’ll really never know until you ask them, right? Who knows, one of your friends might just know someone that’s available. Hopefully, you will never have a dateless night if you ask your friends for help.

Go To A Restaurant Or To A Coffee Shop

It’s already the middle of the week and you’re still without a date for the weekend. A good place to start looking for a potential date is in a restaurant or in a coffee shop. There are chances of bumping into someone in such places. You will never know who is sitting on the next table. So if you do find yourself in a restaurant or in a coffee shop, keep your eyes wide open and flash a smile. The cute guy sitting on the next table might just end up asking you out for the weekend.

Pick Up Some Grocery Items

Another possible place to bump into someone is in the grocery store. There are a lot of single guys that do their grocery shopping. So keep your eyes wide open as you go up and down each aisle in the grocery store. The guy behind you might just be cute enough for you to consider. You will definitely end up with more than just a couple ot grocery items if you take timeout to start a conversation with the nice looking guy in the meat section.

Checkout Your Office Mates

This can be a little controversial because some folks aren’t too keen about dating office mates. But if dating an office mate doesn’t bother you, then start considering the guys in the office. Surely, there is one single guy that’s more than willing to take you out. You just really need to lookout for the right guy.

Go Online

You can find a lot of guys online. Either you can hook up with some of your guy friends on a social network or find new guys online. With so many dating sites, you will never run our of guys to date. But of course, you would also need to be careful with the guys you meet online. Nonetheless, you will never have a dateless night if you go online.

Hang Out In The Mall

You might say that hanging out in the mall is for teenagers. After all, you did exactly just that when you were in high school. But the truth of the matter is that you will have more chances of meeting guys in the mall. Who knows, you might just bump into a long lost friend or someone new in the mall. There are endless possibilities for you to find a date in the mall. You just really need to do your part in attracting the right guy.

So you don’t really need to get all stressed up if you still haven’t gotten yourself a date for the weekend. You can still increase your chances of finding a date if you get some help from friends or look in various places mentioned above.


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My Expectations On A First Date

first-date-expectationsI always try to keep my expectations low on the first date. But deep down inside, I’m hoping it turns out to be perfect. I guess it’s a natural feeling. After all, the reason why I go out on dates is to find that perfect partner ( as if that exists!). Nonetheless given that thought, it’s but natural to expect a lot on the first date.

Here are a couple of my expectations on a first date. I know they seem pretty wild but I can dream, can’t I?

Here’s One Hot Date Coming Up

In my case, one of the reasons as to why I spend so much time in trying to look good for a date is because I want it to turn out to be a hot date. Who doesn’t want a hot date? But “hot” doesn’t necessarily have to be intimate. It can just be one hot fun date with a followup.

We’re Going To Hit It Off

I think everybody wishes this before a date. I mean, why go through all the trouble of dating if deep inside I think it’s not going to turn out right. I think it’s a waste of time to go on a date thinking we’re not going to hit it off. The point is, I just really want to make the time worthwhile. Hence, it wouldn’t be such a waste of time if my date and I hit it off well.

My Date Will Drool At The Sight Of Me

Call it whatever you want to call it but the self-centered part of me wants to be the star of the night. That’s exactly why I put so much effort in getting my make up done perfectly. Even the clothes I wear are well thought of. I want my date to be proud of me, to the point that he will drool at the sight of me. Of course deep inside me, I also hope to drool over the sight of him. Wouldn’t it be great if we were two gorgeous people for the night?

My Date Is Hot

I’ve already said how much I expect my date to be good looking. But looking good is just part of being hot. I expect my date to be hot; which means he isn’t just gorgeous but also interesting. I expect him to be intellectually stimulating. It would be great to talk to someone about stuff that matters. And if we could talk and talk before sunrise then the date was well worth it.

In addition to that, being hot also means that he’s pretty cool about the fact that he’s hot. It’s no big deal to him that the every woman in the room looks his way. Because if there’s one thing I don’t enjoy it’s spending the whole night with a self-absorbed guy.

Hopefully This Is It

I don’t think I’m only one that wishes this. I literally cross my fingers on the first date, hoping it is the end of the search of someone. We all want to find that special person to spend some time with. That’s the mystery of dating. We will never know if we’ll ever find that special person. But that will never stop us from dating the next guy that comes along.

To this day, none of my expectations have been met. But I’m not giving up. I know that one day, I will finally be on that perfect date. In the mean time, I will just hang on to my expectations.


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Can A Girl Ask A Guy Out?

ask-guy-out-on-dateIt’s an age old question that gets a different answer all the time. Not all girls will agree that it’s okay for them to ask a guy out. While some girls find it okay, some girls still hesitate to do it. At the end, they don’t do it at all.

But we here are at SoWIW think it’s okay to ask a guy out. It wouldn’t hurt to try, right? After all, it’s only a date and the worse thing that can happen is to get rejected. Rejection isn’t exactly life threatening. There’s definitely life after rejection and we can pretty much live through it.

Seriously, we think it’s okay to ask a guy out. And it seems like we’re not the only one that think so. According to, it’s okay to ask a guy out. As a matter of fact, it’s totally acceptable for a girl to ask a guy out. Here are the six ways to do it.

Just Go Up And Ask Him

Some girls may think that this is easier said than done. But in reality, what is there to lose? The only reason why girls think this is hard to do is because of pride. There’s always that fear of being rejected. If every girl lets go of the fear of being rejected, asking a guy out can turn out to be as easy as counting one, two, three.

There are only two things that can happen when a girl asks a guy out,. Either she’s rejected or accepted. A lot has already been said about being rejected but what if the guys says yes? Sometimes we, women, concentrate on the negative too much that we just don’t take a chance. It really wouldn’t hurt to just go up to him and ask him out.

Send Him A Drink

If a girl catches a cute guy looking at her, we also think it’s okay for her to send him another drink. This is a good way to reinforce the eye contact that has been established. The guy would definitely not mind getting another drink. Chances are, he might even get thrilled. Sending a guy a drink can really open up a lot of possibilities.

Do What He Enjoys Doing

If in case the girl has gotten far enough to set a date with a guy, she should keep in mind what the guy likes to do. The girl should seriously consider the activities the guy likes to do. She did, after all, ask him out.

Make Use Of The Extra Ticket

A spare ticket is always a good sign to ask a guy out. Some girls get pretty depressed to with spare tickets. They focus on the missing date every time they have a spare ticket. But we think it’s time to reverse that thinking. A spare ticket is a good sign to ask a guy out. If he says no, the girl can always ask another guy out. That spare ticket is good reason to ask a guy out.

Make It A Group Date

If the girl really wants to ask a guy out without looking desperate, she can immediately say that’s it’s a group date. This way, the guy won’t feel too pressured about the one-on-one date.

Hint, Hint

Another great way for a girl to get on a date with the guy she likes is to drop a hint. If she can’t ask directly, she can drop a hint and say something like this.

“I would really like to see this movie …”

That’s a great hint but it the guy doesn’t get it, we suggest that the she stops beating around the bush.

We really think that there’s nothing wrong with asking a guy out. So for every girl that wants to take a chance, we can only say, “Go, go, girl!”


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